https://orgiq.org/ all our organization can grow smarter day by day. Wed, 13 May 2026 10:21:01 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://orgiq.org/blog/zwei-sichten-auf-die-welt/#comment-722 Wed, 13 May 2026 10:21:01 +0000 https://orgiq.org/?p=1648#comment-722 Der Kontrast zwischen der kontrollbasierten und der vertrauensbasierten Sichtweise ist wirklich prägnant beschrieben und erklärt so gut, warum viele Organisationen in endlose Abstimmungsprozesse verfallen. Tatsächlich zeigt die Erfahrung oft, dass die Umstellung von Kontrolle auf geteilte Verantwortung nicht nur die Effizienz steigert, sondern auch das Engagement der Mitarbeiter fundamental verändert. Diese Erkenntnis ist ein wichtiger Schritt, um die oft starr wirkenden Management-Strukturen wirklich zu durchbrechen.

]]> https://orgiq.org/blog/the-hidden-deficit-why-almost-all-of-us-are-emotional-vampires/#comment-721 Wed, 13 May 2026 03:05:46 +0000 https://orgiq.org/?p=1106#comment-721 The hug example really got me — I’ve definitely been physically present with my son while my mind was already three tasks ahead. It’s strange timing too, because I was just trying to clean up some old blurry family photos this week, and it hit me that I can sharpen the images but not the moments I wasn’t truly there for. Thank you for naming something so uncomfortable so gently.

]]> https://orgiq.org/blog/the-hidden-deficit-why-almost-all-of-us-are-emotional-vampires/#comment-720 Tue, 12 May 2026 15:31:29 +0000 https://orgiq.org/?p=1106#comment-720 The line about hugging your child while being emotionally somewhere else really landed for me — I’ve caught myself doing exactly that more times than I’d like to admit. Lately I’ve been pulling the audio out of old family MOV clips just to listen back to my kids’ voices on walks, and it’s quietly shown me how often I was “there but not there.” Thank you for naming something so uncomfortable in such a plain way.

]]> https://orgiq.org/blog/the-hidden-deficit-why-almost-all-of-us-are-emotional-vampires/#comment-719 Mon, 11 May 2026 12:59:16 +0000 https://orgiq.org/?p=1106#comment-719 This really struck a chord with me. The example of hugging your child while being emotionally absent is something I have caught myself doing more than I would like to admit. Thank you for naming this so honestly.

]]> https://orgiq.org/blog/the-hidden-deficit-why-almost-all-of-us-are-emotional-vampires/#comment-718 Sun, 10 May 2026 08:05:23 +0000 https://orgiq.org/?p=1106#comment-718 The hugging example really landed for me — I’ve caught myself holding my kid while my mind was already three rooms away, and calling that “presence.” Lately I’ve been trying to give my unprocessed feelings somewhere to go before I show up to the people I love, sometimes by journaling, sometimes by turning a song that’s been looping in my head into a small video just for myself. It’s not therapy, but externalizing that inner static seems to leave a little more room to actually be there when it counts.

]]> https://orgiq.org/blog/so-what-are-humans-really-like-good-or-evil/#comment-716 Sat, 09 May 2026 17:40:54 +0000 https://orgiq.org/?p=1734#comment-716 The way you connected Marston’s perception of the world as either friendly or hostile to the concepts of original sin really clarified why so many organizational structures rely on control rather than trust. It’s fascinating how these foundational beliefs about human nature dictate whether leaders prioritize hierarchy or genuine connection. This perspective definitely challenges us to consider if our current systems are built on fear or the natural capacity for cooperation.

]]> https://orgiq.org/blog/the-hidden-deficit-why-almost-all-of-us-are-emotional-vampires/#comment-713 Sat, 09 May 2026 12:04:18 +0000 https://orgiq.org/?p=1106#comment-713 The hugging-your-child example really cut deep — I’ve absolutely been that parent, arms around my son while my mind drifts to tomorrow’s meetings. Lately I’ve caught myself scrolling old family photos, even animating a few into short clips, hoping motion would somehow recover what I wasn’t fully present for in the first place. It doesn’t, of course; sitting with that inner emptiness instead of quietly feeding off the people I love feels like the harder, more honest work. Thank you for naming this so plainly.

]]> https://orgiq.org/blog/the-hidden-deficit-why-almost-all-of-us-are-emotional-vampires/#comment-711 Fri, 08 May 2026 03:54:33 +0000 https://orgiq.org/?p=1106#comment-711 This really made me reflect on those moments when I’m physically present but emotionally absent—like when hugging my child while my mind is elsewhere. I think creative outlets like ASCII art can actually help us process these feelings and become more aware of our inner lives. Thank you for such a thoughtful and vulnerable piece.

]]> https://orgiq.org/blog/the-hidden-deficit-why-almost-all-of-us-are-emotional-vampires/#comment-710 Fri, 08 May 2026 01:54:47 +0000 https://orgiq.org/?p=1106#comment-710 The distinction you make between malice and a simple inner deficit is incredibly insightful; it shifts the focus from judging behavior to addressing the root cause of emotional exhaustion. I found your observation about how this ‘deficit’ manifests even during intimate moments, like hugging a child, to be a powerful reminder to check our own presence rather than just our intentions.

]]> https://orgiq.org/blog/the-hidden-deficit-why-almost-all-of-us-are-emotional-vampires/#comment-709 Thu, 07 May 2026 07:12:17 +0000 https://orgiq.org/?p=1106#comment-709 This really hit home—especially those moments when I’m hugging my child but mentally elsewhere, like I’m running through tomorrow’s to-do list while physically present. I’m trying to document my own reflections on presence more intentionally now, and converting video thoughts into audio has become a surprisingly useful way to process these realizations without getting lost in the visuals.

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